I search for you day and night.
I search for you — for myself.
I feel lonely.
I need someone who will care for me, pay attention to me, take me under their wing.
I need you so much.
“With myself,” I don't love myself. I feel lonely when I'm alone with myself. I don't know what to talk to myself about, what to think through with myself? We don't understand each other at all — me and me. I feel restless. Come — calm me down. You can do it!
And he's the same, sending the same message. He's lonely with himself too. He's searching for you too. Two halves are supposed to become one whole. Two half-people want to become one person.
But it doesn't work that way. If there's no love, if you aren't filled with it, you'll have nothing to give. You'll simply wait for it and demand it from your partner. Soon enough, you'll turn into two creatures who've had their support taken away. This is codependent love, where you need someone who will fill your emptiness. Real love gives, it gives itself away, it bestows. Look for it. Once you find the Author of love — dive into it.
Love yourself.
You're not a half — you're a whole!
And then look for him. Someone self-sufficient, generous. He won't ask for love. He'll give it! When I change — my choice changes too.
